Um...I dont like that much

Try just try and tell me that when your spouse gives you a High Five because you made money massaging two men and gave them a Happy Ending! Im pretty sure your marriage is loveless and now has become a high fiving friendship sorority brothers type shit. How do you continue to look at this person seriously, and sexually?  Not that the sex has been plentiful or even good in a long long while, well since the child has been born. Not that you would trade having a child for the chance at having good sex? Would you?  At this point in my life I would settle for a quiet day, all by myself, with music, writing and warm cup of coffee. Marriage is a triad of problems, and it takes two hell of a pair of people to make it last. I mean like your great grandma and grandpa last. Johnny and June last. 

Are you married? if so would, and your spouse died , would you die 4 days later because you couldn't stand a life without them or would you finally feel free?  These are the questions people should be asking themselves before the delve into a  crying baby, 9-5, no sex having life! You better make damn sure your ready to look at the same face for the rest of your life, even as it falls and gets wrinkly and old. 

In the days of battle over the sanctity of marriage. Why would you fight for it? What does it even mean anymore? I feel the gay community just wants to get married because they cant. Marriage doesn't mean what it used to anymore, so why battle for something that just stands for two people doing something on a whim or because your pregnant and you actually still think marriage is something you have to do?  

Again this is all the opinion of a Gay man married to a Female to Male Transsexual, who had a child and got married and now live in the same house but more then often ignore each other unless there is another person other then us in the room. No sex life, No Social Life etc.  My judgement on marriage could be clouded but no less true for most married couples in the world.